7 secrets of a real lady
- Goats! How can?! - in the hearts of the woman exclaimed, which was sprayed by a car passing by. Perhaps, and not hearing an apology in his address.
The woman is elegantly silent and will go to change. After listening to the apology of the astonished driver. Changing their plans in the bud and not particularly worried about it.
Elegance is elusive, but visible in everything - in gait, posture, conversation and voice. In the movements of the hands and a slight smile. In the smallest details that enchant passers-by and fall in love with men.
About her written a lot of articles, trainings and made many films. But it can not be put in frames, it can only be felt and radiated.
Miss elegance is always conscious
How often do we, absorbed in the flow, run onDoing business, waving his arms and belligerently cutting through the air with his forehead? Or frown, sitting in the subway, as if in a competition for the most difficult view. Why is this happening? Because if you do not think about expressing your face, it becomes surprisingly morose.
An elegant woman realizes herself every second. It is actually a way of life. You do not need to make a smile out of yourself, but remember your image. And not only in crowded places - alone, such a woman continues to "hold herself", and it is not a burden to her. Just in a different way, I do not feel like it and I'm not comfortable.
Grace is a habit
All these are elementary skills: remember your face and gait, keep your posture, move smoothly. Elegance can be learned, it can be "trained". It's just like learning how to get up at seven in the morning or go out for a little walk in the evening.
She knows how to love herself
"An elegant woman should go to the market, so that she is not laughed at by housewives. Those who laugh in such cases are always right ... "- Coco Chanel
A real woman knows how to relax, hears silence, and can look at the clouds ecstatically instead of the phone screen. She does not exhaust herself. Such a woman likes herself.
She has no habit of torturing herself for the sake of happinessothers or success at work. Because when she is calm and peaceful, then life for the home - in joy, and at work everything works out. It charges the surrounding world with the energy of its love, monitors the level of its batteries - and on time goes recharging.
It can not be put out of balance
A real joke takes trouble, does nottakes the blows of fate at his own expense and does not spend himself on grievances. After all, all this is such nonsense! Fate gives many reasons for suffering, but if you actively use them, you will not have enough strength. Its spiritual well-being needs to be able to put on the first place.
Miss Elegance has nothing to condemn - with her self-worth everything is in order. You will not find her behind gossip, she does not look, gloating, pages of former classmates in social networks.
This woman knows how to take rapturous looks
A luxurious woman rarely remains unnoticed andknows how to accept compliments and enthusiastic views. She is not blinded by the rays of glory, but she is not ashamed of her visibility. She admits herself and knows: compliments have nothing to be embarrassed about.
Why should I be held back "yes this blouse is 23 years old, she got me from my mother ..." to a compliment from a colleague. You can just thank. Because it's important to appreciate yourself.
She feels comfortable in her body
If you think that a refined woman mustto have an aspen waist and chiseled hips, - now, laugh at this prejudice in person and forget about it forever. We often see how delicate, plump, soft ladies look charming. But only in the case when they are able to correctly beat themselves. Do not tighten in jeans, do not push themselves into dress-cases two sizes smaller, and dress themselves organically. Lush forms - this is really charming, and do not put yourself in the framework of modern fashion.
And it does not work by the rules. And according to the situation
The last secret: to be an organic environment. You do not need to go to a picnic in a narrow jacket, put on a heel for a walk and roast in a tight suit at +30.
It is not necessary to believe those who say that the lack of a heel is unacceptable, a sharpened classic is the key to success, and loose hair is a terrible mauve ton.
If you are sure of the neatness of your haircut -open your hair. Uncomfortable on the heel - do not grumble on it, you can pick up a neat slipper or siphon on a flat move. And do not lock your personality in a scrupulous black and white classics.