How to kiss a guy for the first time?
The first kiss is important for each person, because memories of him are saved for life, as the first love and the first date. Many believe that the girl in no case should not kiss the guy first. This is a controversial opinion. On the one hand, in this way she will show her accessibility and readiness for more intimate actions. On the other hand, there is nothing bad and shameful in wanting to kiss a guy first.
First kiss: you or him
Before you decide to kiss a guy for the first time, think carefully about what he is. If a guy behaves confidently, speaks to you easily and interestingly, acts as the initiator of your common actions (for example, the first one suggests you to go somewhere in the evening), then you should not hurry with the first deep kiss. The time will come, and he himself will do everything right. You just need to relax and respond to a kiss, repeating his actions, because these guys, in most cases, already know how to kiss.
If a guy is shy, behaves in constraints, afraid to touch you, then do not take it as his dislike for you. If he is with you, he likes you, and he is just afraid to do something extra, so as not to spoil your relationship. The reasons for this behavior on his part may be several. Perhaps you are the first girl with whom he meets, and therefore he does not know how to behave properly. He may have the experience of the first deep kiss, but he has strong feelings for you and does not want to destroy your relationship. In both cases, the guy will be afraid to kiss you first. So you need help from the girl, and you can safely kiss the guy for the first time.
How to kiss for the first time: general tips
Remember that the first kiss is very important. On how it will be, it depends on whether your relationship will develop further or come to naught. Everyone has their first kiss, but you can give general advice on how to properly kiss a guy for the first time. They need to be followed if you do not want to be trapped.
- Choose the right situation for the first kiss. On the first date, a deep kiss is inappropriate. The maximum that a girl can afford is to kiss a guy while parting his cheek.In this way, you will show that you had a good time with him and you are ready for further relations without doing anything extra.
- You should not kiss a guy in those moments when he is very passionate about conversation and really wants to tell you a story. Listen to him with interest, and when he finishes, you can kiss him.
- Don't kiss the guy if you see that he doesn't like you. So neither you nor he will enjoy the kiss. Also, I do not advise kissing a drunk or just smoked guy. Respect yourself and remember that the first kiss will not happen again. Did you want to remember such a kiss?
- When you are going to kiss a guy for the first time, pay attention to how you look. Be neat, tidy and beautiful. Do not need much makeup. A large number of cosmetics can frighten off and discourage any desire to kiss. Pay special attention to lipstick and perfume. It is not necessary to pour out half a bottle of perfume on yourself before the date. Strong smell can cause discomfort at best, and allergies at worst. Lipstick is also better to set aside for more suitable occasions. You do not want a guy to remember the taste of your lipstick instead of the taste of your lips? Maximum - light and fragrant lip gloss.
- The best first kiss is in a romantic setting in the middle or near the end of the date.
- The first kiss should be sincere, desirable, natural. It is better to err and behave naturally than to try to do everything strictly according to the scheme, scrolling in the head the advice of his girlfriends. Before a kiss, you must show that you are genuinely interested in the guy and that you want a kiss with him.
- Pay attention to your breath. It is clear that it should be fresh and pleasant. You can brush your teeth at home before the date, but what about the situation when you go to a cafe or restaurant? Take mint sweets with you. It is candy, not chewing gum. Firstly, you will not look very romantic if your partner admires your chewing face while your mouth is busy with chewing gum. Secondly, where will you get the cud, when you will no longer need it? Spitting it out with a guy is also not very romantic, and taking it out of his mouth and putting it on a plate, too. Mint candies are more convenient: in which case they can be swallowed, and they refresh breath just as good as chewing gum.
First kiss with tongue
Now closer to the topic. So, here's how to kiss a guy with a tongue for the first time:
- Think about how you will breathe before and during the kiss. Consider that during a kiss, people breathe calmly. Do not try to hold or breathe. It looks artificial and does not add to your attractiveness. If you hold your breath, you will have to break the kiss in order to take a breath. And this can spoil the impression of a kiss.
- Now about the eyes. Before the kiss, look the guy straight in the eyes. The look should be direct and interested. When your lips meet, the eyes of both should be closed. Otherwise, the kiss will turn ugly, since your faces will be very close to each other. This will cause awkwardness. With eyes closed, the kiss is natural and feels better.
- The first kiss should not be too short or too long. You will feel when you need to stop. If a guy starts to close his lips and pull away, then it's time to stop.
- While kissing, hug the guy by the neck or shoulders, smooth him on the back of the head, back or shoulders.
- Many girls are afraid of the first kiss, because they do not know what to do when the language was in the mouth of the guy.If the guy is experienced, then you will quickly understand how to move during a kiss. If not, relax first. In no case should you move your tongue too fast, hard and assertively. Start slowly and gently caress your tongue guy. Imagine your languages talking. Let your tongue stroke the tongue of the partner on its sides and back. You can play with the tip of the guy's tongue with fast circular movements.
- The most important thing is to be sincere and tender while kissing. Think about how good you are with your boyfriend. And everything will work out!